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Use this procedure to distill your Bright Principles.
(This 'Distilling Destiny' initiation is extracted from Chapter 8 of Clinton Callahan's book: "Directing The Power Of Conscious Feelings.")
After you distill and jack-in to your Bright Principles, the world works differently for you. Below you will find suggestions for how to use and be used by 'something greater than yourself', plus practical Experiments to try that build your Bright Principles navigation skills.
NOTE: It is important to be stabilized in Adulthood and the Adult Ego State before Distilling your Bright Principles from your life. The reason is because by Distilling your Bright Principles, and by choosing to be the Space through which your Bright Principles can to their Work in the world, you are entering Archetypal Domains. Without a solid grounding in Adulthood, opening Doorways to the Archetypal can be confusing and ineffective. It is smart to be able to Hold and Navigate the extra energy before you expose yourself to the extra energy to navigate.
About Bright Principles
"I want to be true to that in me which seeks to fulfill its promise."
- Etty Hillman, An Interrupted Life.
What is a Bright Principle?
A Bright Principles is an archetypal force of nature, perhaps the same force of nature that George Bernhard Shaw experienced when he wrote:
"This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy."
- George Bernard Shaw, Man and Superman, Epistle Dedicatory
Since the middle 1990's we in Possibility Management have been researching how human beings can practically become aware of and make direct use of their personal set of Bright Principles. The results of our empirical experiments have been astonishing. Our working hypothesis, now, is that initiated adult human beings are designed to be the space through which a unique set of 3 to 6 Bright Principles can do their work in the world.
Bright Principles seem to be facets of the General Field of Consciousness out of which the Universe is made. Each Bright Principle is one of the radiant aspects of archetypal love, the bright jewel at the center of the Great Labyrinth of spaces. These may seem like strange words, but they are turn out to be practical and precise.
Another way to say this is: Bright Principles are the archetypal components of the General Field of Consciousness. If you could send a beam of this raw consciousness through a prism, the various 'colors' of consciousness that would split apart and emerge from the prism would be the Bright Principles.
Using Bright Principles is a practical way to be radically responsible because responsibility is applied consciousness. Responsibility is consciousness in action.
Bright Principles are the main resource driving you as a Possibilitator in your Bright World just as Shadow Principles are the main resource driving you as a Gremlin in your Shadow World. These relations and are fully revealed on the Thoughtmap of Possibility.
What does it mean to Distill Your Bright Principles?
In our research it seems that each person carries some kind of resonance with their set of Bright Principles since birth. What this means is that if you sift through your life you would find your set of Bright Principles already influencing your preferences, the choices you have made, and the coincidences that have become the building blocks of your life. If you regard what has attracted and inspired you from a certain perspective you can distill the influences of your Bright Principles. That is exactly what the Distilling Destiny Initiation does.
By distilling your set of 3 to 6 Bright Principles out of your life you can more intentionally create and choose in alignment with your Bright Principles. By doing this you can experience the satisfaction and empowerment of being your destiny in action. Then you do not have to wait until you are lying on your deathbed to look back to see the patterns of what you life has really been about. You can discover that now.
We have found that each person serves as the representative of a unique combination of Bright Principles (facets of consciousness) that provide you with personal and unlimited energy and information. Making life choices becomes simpler and your projects can be more clearly empowered when you find out what your Bright Principles are.
To extract your Bright Principles from the details of your life we ask you a series of specially formulated questions. In the end you will have clarity about the 3 to 6 responsible principles that you have been unconsciously bringing into the world since birth. By refining and choosing to serve your Bright Principles you get the chance to collaborate with them consciously.
We name these Bright Principles your Destiny. With your new clarity you can choose moment-to-moment actions that allow you to be your Destiny in action right now.
Further Notes:
A Word To The Wise...
In this initiation you will be clarifying the four, five or six Bright Principles of your Destiny.
If you have skipped ahead to this website without learning how to consciously feel your feelings and emotions, it’s a clever idea but I don’t recommend it.
Learning to consciously feel is similar to rock climbing, which is actually quite simple. Slip into a harness, design your approach, chalk up your hands and calculate your monkey time.
However, before you are allowed to climb the massive vertical cliff face of El Capitan in Yosemite National Park they make you take lessons and get a 'Rock Climbing Certificate'. It’s for your own good.
That’s because if you shout “Off belay!” when what you mean is “On belay!” you could scream ten meters and wrench your back. If you think your rock face is grade 4.2 but it is actually 5.8 you could be in for hard knocks. If your carabiner isn’t fully locked when you’ve got your climbing rope clicked into your Quickdraw the wrong way you might need more than a new brain bucket.
I am not saying anything like this will happen if you skip over the initiations that allow you to inner navigate and consciously feel. But I am saying that the world of conscious feelings operates under different laws than the world of numbness, just like rock climbing is different from stair climbing.
Before you rope up for Distilling Your Destiny I strongly encourage you to study the first seven chapters of the book Directing the Power of Conscious Feelings, or even better, to do Expand The Box training.
It’s for your own good.
Maps of Bright Principles
Distill Your Bright Principles
Here is how to do it.
This works best when one person is the Reader / Spaceholder and other people are the Distillers.
Distillers need to have a pen and their Beep! Book for writing in.
Duration: If you do all 4 parts this can easily take a couple of hours.
This Distilling Destiny Initiation includes 4 Parts:
Parts 2, 3 and 4 bring Part 1 out of intellectual curiosity and into authenticity.
Part 1: DISCOVERING YOUR DESTINY (30 min)
INSTRUCTIONS / PROCEDURE:
NOTE: This procedure works best when one person reads the questions out loud slowly, one at a time, while one or more other people write out their answers to these questions. The second consciousness is helpful as a spaceholder for the process to proceed well. This procedure is not as effective if you read the questions to yourself and then also answer them. You have been notified.
The spaceholder says: Write out the answers to the as many of the following questions as you can, all the while keeping in mind that you are looking for common themes, principles and values. You will not have time to write complete sentences or to answer all of the questions. Just write the themes, principles and values that are revealed to you. The purpose of these questions is to help you identify what really matters to you.
Distilling Destiny Questions:
Distillation Instructions:
[It is the Trainer’s job to check for the final completeness of the Destiny Principles. Have each person read their distilled Principles to you. Sense with all five bodies the resonance and completeness of the Principles. In the list there should be at least one heart Principle (such as Love, Friendship, Family, Togetherness, Oneness, Acceptance, Community, Connectedness), at least one sword Principle (such as Integrity, Clarity, Trustworthiness, Impeccability, Precision, Accountability), and at least one soul Principle (such as Possibility, Transformation, Healing, Empowerment, Adventure, Exploration, Creation, Service, Collaboration). If a word is too general you will need to help the person get further clarity and specificity. For example, if they chose, ecology, ask them: "Ecology in relationship to what? For what purpose? To what end?” Find precision with each word until they all come together into an undeniable description of the person’s natural destiny. Have the person write the Principles again in their most clear and powerful natural order.]
Part 2: CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY
Your Destiny is optional! You have distilled your Principles, but you have not chosen your Principles.
QUESTIONS TO DISCUSS BEFORE CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY:
FURTHER DISTINCTIONS ABOUT YOUR PRINCIPLES:
CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY PRINCIPLES:
PRACTICAL QUESTION:
Q: I don't know-how to create what matters to me.
A: If you had the know-how to create what matters to you, then you would only create what you already know-how to create. Why not simply commit to creating what matters to you and radically rely on your Bright Principles to handle the know-how part? The universe conserves know-how. It only gives you know-how after you are already committed. The secret is to commit first. Your commitment is authentic necessity that forces the universe to give you the know-how and resources to create what matters to you.
HINT: Being in a weekly Possibility Team can be an extremely power environment for empowering you to figure out how to create what matters to you, and actually creating it. Your power to implement increases by using the group intelligence of your Possibility Team!
Part 3: ADDING MASS TO YOUR DESTINY – EXPERIMENTS
In silence please make your list of 20 practices for building Bright Principle mass.
Part 4: IMPLEMENTING YOUR DESTINY – A PROJECT
FURTHER DISTINCTIONS ABOUT IMPLEMENTING YOUR DESTINY:
Whatever behaviors and excuses arise in you so that WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO YOU does not show up first in your life from moment-to-moment are simply your Box and your Gremlin defending your familiar positions and territory.
After You Distill Your Bright Principles, Then What?
Notes for after you break on through to the other side.
BACKLIGHTENMENT
During the past half-century or more the concept of 'enlightenment as a spiritual goal to be attained' has filtered into Western thinking from Eastern religious belief systems such as Hinduism and Buddhism. As a result, many Edgeworkers today include some kind of daily practice of Yoga or Meditation in their way of life.
The belief that 'It is good that I do this because I might someday become enlightened' is a Memetic Construct that may shape your relationship to your Bright Principles in a way that is not helpful.
Here is why: Without thinking about it, the attraction to 'enlightenment' reinforces the natural childhood attraction to bright shiny objects, colorful lights, sparkles, and reflections. Without adulthood initiation into your Attention you will avoid looking in shadows and focus on shiny objects.
On the one hand, unconsciously focusing your Attention on shiny objects is NOT useful for a Possibilitator because then your Attention is not yours. It is possessed by the advertisers... the purveyors of bright shiny objects. If the advertisers have your Attention, then they have your wallet. Does this work? Yes it works. How else could advertisers get their advertising budget year after year if their advertising did not more than pay for itself? By focusing on shiny objects you get blinded by the light.
On the same hand, unconsciously (or even consciously...) focusing your Attention on shiny objects is ALSO NOT useful for a Possibilitator because when you jack-in to your Bright Principles (or later, when you jack-in to your Archetypal Lineage) you will have the tendency to turn and face into the Bright Principles, gazing upon them with loving admiration... and this is not actually what is wanted and needed.
After Millennia of living in belief systems teaching that the Macedonian Gods, Phoenician Gods, Egyptian Gods, Greek Gods, Roman Gods, Hindu Gods, Christian Gods, etc., all thrive on our loving obeisances, our sacrifices, our offerings, and our Attention, it has become a problem. The problem is that by staring expectantly into the Bright Principles represented in each of the Gods and Goddesses you block the flow of Bright Principle energies into the world.
Bright Principles want to be put to Work.
This is why we propose you adopt the practice of Backlightenment.
Instead of staring into your Bright Principles thinking they will give you something, turn around 180 degrees and face away from the Bright Principles, leaving them behind you, shining at your back. Then instead of being Enlightened you are Backlightened.
When you are Backlightened, your Bright Principles can see through your eyes, hear through your ears, move your attention where it needs to go, and flow Archetypal levels of energy and intelligence through the Space that you are being, so that the Bright Principles can do their Work in the world.
In short, make sure you turn around and keep your back towards your Bright Principles so that you are Backlightened. The Bright Principles are not for you. They are for your healing your clients and feeding your gameworlds.
A LITTLE SOMETHING EXTRA
Bright Principles have no voice, no fingers, no feet. They have no bodies. They are merely facets of the General Field of Consciousness at large. Yet they are endless resources that modern culture knows nothing about, but which next culture - archearchy - thrives on.
Through authentic adulthood initiatory processes - including the Distilling Destiny initiation - you can choose to serve as the material-world agent of your personally-distilled set of three to six Bright Principles, delivering clarity and possibility and taking actions on behalf of, your Bright Principles.
Through experiential research, not by strategy or theory, we have discovered that while you are being (in reality) the Space through which your Bright Principles can do their Work in the world, the Bright Principles leave a little something extra behind in you.
What your Bright Principles leave behind is not a payment or an exchange. It is physics, functioning the same way as after water passes through a hose the inside of the hose is left wet. From another perspective, the Bright Principle's perspective, it is common sense. To support your service of being an agent of Bright Principles they do whatever they can to:
DROP YOUR BAGGAGE; KEEP MOVING
By the time you have distilled and actually jacked-in to your Bright Principles, your personal development and personal healing work will probably change tracks and go to Stage 2.
Stage 1 is when you need to HAVE a healing or initiatory Process.
Stage 2 is when you need to DELIVER a healing or initiatory Process.
The change of orientation comes when you recognize that your further healing and evolution emerge through facilitating healing and evolution for others.
Your next Process arrives with your next Client.
You don't have to worry about going to get transformational opportunities for yourself. They will knock at your door.
Two hints help with Stage 2 Work.
HINT #1: DROP YOUR BAGGAGE
What is meant by 'baggage'? You are probably carrying a far vaster quantity of no-longer-needed extra-weight baggage in all of your 5 Bodies than you imagine right now. Every extra thing you carry uses up energy to carry it, which - even if the carrying energy comes from your Bright Principles - could be used for more useful activities.
Think of it this way. In a shower, there are two ways to increase the flow of hot water:
NOTE: The Experiments below challenge you to drop many different kinds of baggage you may no longer need to carry to free up energy in yourself to do Stage 2 Work,
Each piece of 'baggage' you drop changes who you are because your identity changes and your Point of Origin moves to a new starting place.
You are no longer the person carrying this particular piece of baggage. You have become the person who used-to-be-carrying that baggage but no longer carries it. You take on a new way of being in the world.
Each piece of baggage you are able to drop empowers you with abilities to help other people drop the same sort of baggage they are carrying.
UNPLUG FROM YOUR BRIGHT PRINCIPLES AT NIGHT
Since Bright Principles have no physical bodies of their own, they are on 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, even the 29th of February whenever that rolls around. This makes so much sense in their Archetypal world that once the Bright Principles have been jacked-into by a human being who has discovered the possibility of being the space through which the Bright Principles can do their work in the world, the Bright Principles have no reason to ever back off...
What this means is that, sometimes, you may not need as much sleep as you thought you needed. (See the section above called 'A Little Something Extra'.) Yet at other times, you yourself must be the reason that your Bright Principles back off for a bit.
Be careful not to give this power of backing-off your Bright Principles to your Gremlin and his (or her) Shadow Purposes, or to your Box and its mechanical survival-contexted habits. Keep this power of backing-off your Bright Principles as the sole property of your undefended Being. Knowing when and for how long to unplug from your Bright Principles is like knowing when and for how long to stop eating. You develop your skills through direct experience.
THREE HINTS: You have a physical body. Your physical body has a physical nervous system, physical organs and tissues, and a limited physical endurance. Doing the Work of your Bright Principles (and Archetypal Lineage) in the world is intense by ordinary standards. The more you place a life of practice as a value at the center of your world, the more your physical body will build resilience for enduring the unbearable lightness of Being.
There are three practices that can help:
Falling asleep after that is a matter of radical relaxation. With each exhale you relax a different part of your physical body. For example, first exhale, relax your hands. Next exhale, relax your hair. Next exhale, relax your teeth. Next exhale, relax your brain. Next exhale, relax your kidneys. Next exhale, relax your eyes. Next exhale, relax your toes. Next exhale.... You get the idea. (Jeeez... I'm falling asleep while writing this.)
YOUR CIRCLE NEEDS BRIGHT PRINCIPLE FOOD
The status quo of the world is hard like stone.
The status quo of your Box's life is also hard as stone.
To create a space for your gameworld in your life and in the global ethnosphere you will need to carve new space in your life and the global ethnosphere with a grinder and a hammer and chisel.
The work of carving out new space is long and difficult. It is not for children. The fantasy world of 'being discovered by Oprah' or some famous movie director and suddenly going viral is just that, a fantasy world. Many hours and days and months can unconsciously slip through your fingers while you are fascinated by your fantasy world, busily making other plans...
If you succeed at creating a vacuum in the status quo, people will come and fill it. The universe will provide you with people who are hungry for the particular kinds of energetic and transformational food you offer.
It can help to realize that Your Circle grows one person at a time.
Then you can recognize that it takes persistence to build Your Circle. Each Legend Making action brings perhaps one more person into your database listing name / email / WhatsApp info.
It turns out that still now, in 2020, Possibility Management is located at the edge of edgeworkers. We are not yet mainstream in
the people's next culture bridge Experiments. We are still mostly unheard of, even with so much positive feedback and enthusiasm about the value of Possibility Management.
The people in Your Circle are the people whose contact info is in your database. Your Facebook 'friends' are not in Your Circle. There is no commitment in clicking on a button.
And, you can build conviction in your people by supplying tasty, crunchy, juicy food: distinctions, extraordinarily exciting nonlinear challenges, inspiring images, and transformational opportunities, along with the specific date, time, place, cost, and registration info. Each offer is a Doorway to a new future for anyone who finds your Doorway.
The way to build the experience of necessity in others to need the food you provide is to provide food that you would love to have had others provide for you.
What turns you on will not turn everybody on. Focus on further turning on the people who get turned on by what turns you on. This is your Tribe. Feed and empower your Edgeworkers with Distinctions and Experiments.
Most people cannot tell you what they don't know about what is possible. This is exactly the area where they would thrive on the clarity and possibility from you.
High quality energetic food rich, distinctions, and practical hints build bridges connecting from where people are to where they might want to go.
You may be unaware that many bridges to new territory exist at your feet. By taking one conscious step you would be off your beaten path and onto a bridge to an entirely different future. The world of humans is in the desperate condition that it is right now, because of the fear-avoiding habit of continuing along the path you are already on, rather than doing the Box Expansion work required to become aware of the many bridges to new paths that you blindly walk by.
People need to know what a regenerative culture bridge looks like, and how to make their first step onto a bridge.
A bridge can be a flyer, a public talk at a bookstore, an interview with an online video blogger. A bridge can be you saying to someone in the right moment, "If you do Rage Club you might make clearer decisions in your life."
A fruitful place to build necessity in Edgeworkers for the food of your Bright Principles is in parallel collaborative gameworlds. Many gameworlds are starving for your food and distinctions even if they do not know it yet. A list of such gameworlds is online at http://yourcircle.mystrikingly.com.
Attend their meetings, their conferences, their workshops, and ask questions that are close to your heart: "How do you handle conflicting purposes in your gameworld?"
When they say, "We don't know. Could you please say more about this?" you can reply, "I am researching ways that groups such as yours find to interact with people who speak and act from a purpose that is not in your gameworld context. There are some Experiments I could suggest you try that might give you exciting new possibilities about this. Do you want to do one now?"
The distinctions of your Bright Principles can empower other gameworlds that are bridges to next culture. Soon you will hear people telling you: "I am in Deep Adaptation, but I want to know about Rage Club."
Providing copyleft distinctions, tools, processes, and thoughtware into other edgeworker gameworlds strengthens these gameworlds as allies. There already exist global networks of collaborating next culture gameworlds. You have just found one.
CONSTRICTING SPHINCTER
Bright Principles are endless archetypal resources. How can they be endless? Because they are archetypal. Being archetypal means they existed before the Universe. Bright Principles are what the Universe is made of. They are woven into the fabric of the Universe.
The point is that if your poor little improvised temporary psychological-construct is ever exposed to 100% full intensity Bright Principle energy it would puff into smoke faster than you could say, "Ooops..."
Fortunately for you, the human psychological-construct is protected by a 'Constricting Sphincter'. Not to be crude, but the best example of a Constricting Sphincter is an asshole. A Constricting Sphincter is a 'round muscle' that normally remains tightly closed but can relax to a certain degree when necessary. (There are over sixty different kinds of Constricting Sphincters in the human body!) The blowhole on the top of a whale's head is another example of a Constricting Sphincter.
Your Energetic Body maintains a Constricting Sphincter located between your Box and your Bright Principles. This Energetic Constricting Sphincter monitors and manages how much Bright Principle energy is allowed to flow through your Box and into your life.
Gaining practical awareness of your Bright Principle Constricting Sphincter becomes crucial as soon as you start building your gameworld because the people in Your Circle are attracted to your gameworld and are hungry for energetic food from your specific set of Bright Principles. If you look again at the Maps of Bright Principles (shown above), one thoughtmap shows precisely how Bright Principles flow through your Constricting Sphincter before flowing through your Box into your gameworld.
The tightness of your Bright Principle Constricting Sphincter is set by your Box with the purpose of only allowing as much consciousness-expanding, transformational, evolutionary, Bright Principle energy into your life as allows your Box to remain the same as it has always been. From the Box's perspective, this is smart to do because the original purpose of your Box is to defend its original structure thinking (with a mechanical level of certainty) that this is how it can best guarantee your survival. Your Box thinks that if it can survive then you can survive.
Staying in the uninitiated state of survival will not allow you to build and feed your gameworld. Building and feeding your gameworld requires that you are living... which happens in an entirely different Universe than surviving.
In order to shift from merely surviving to living-full-out requires intentionally relaxing step-by-step the tightness of your energetic Constricting Sphincter so that more Bright Principle energy can flow through your Being (and your Box) and into the lives of your 'brothers and sisters' (or, 'colleagues', if you prefer) in your Bright-Principle-contexted gameworld.
Managing your Bright Principle Constricting Sphincter (a key element in managing Possibility...) starts with recognizing that long ago (during your childhood or a 'Past Life') you put 'energetic blocks' into place - either consciously or unconsciously - to keep your Constricting Sphincter closed. This was probably a good idea at the time because a tightened Sphincter diminishes your radiance and intelligence so that you would not be perceived as a threat and overly punished, or even 'burned at the stake' again. Whether or not you remember having put a block in place, it continues to do its job perfectly, still today.
The procedure for discovering, locating, perceiving, communicating with, and re-negotiating your agreement with your Energetic Blocks is known as the the 'Energetic Block Removal Process'.
You can have this energetic healing process in online-or-offline sessions with a Possibility Coach, a Feelings Practitioner, some of the 3 Phase Healers, some of the Initiators, some of the Possibility Psychologists, or with a Possibility Management Trainer during a 'Chairwork Process' at a Possibility Lab.
Practically experience has shown us that you cannot effectively remove your Energetic Blocks alone. At least one external consciousness is needed to hear and complete your communications for the process to complete.
Trainers can Hold Space and Navigate the Process with you, but they cannot do it for you.
Most Possibility Management healing and transformation processes are guided Self Surgeries.
The Processes of 'archearchal or next-culture shamanism' empower you, the Client, to do the transformational surgeries on yourself. Then you are responsible, and not only that, after doing a Process on yourself, you are often able to Hold Space for others to do this surgical Process on themselves. Next-culture healing Processes are all Copyleft. That is, they cannot be Copyrighted. Everything that is invented in next culture is to feed the Creative Commons. This treasure grows by giving it away.
This is very different from traditional indigenous culture shamanism where the shaman comes in, does the healing Process on you, and then leaves. (Please see the Initiations website for more clarity about this.)
CALL YOUR BRIGHT PRINCIPLES INTO YOUR WORKSPACES
One of the key factors establishing the profound safety and remarkable clarity of Possibility Management online-or-offline WorkTalk, Workshop, and Training Spaces is that, while setting up the Workspace, the Spaceholders 'call their Bright Principles into the Space'.
Whether or not you have heard this phrase before, a few technical notes may sharpen up your ability to practice it in reality.
(NOTE: What follows here are 'Trainer Notes'. If they interest you, then you have evidence to suggest that the Trainer Path would quickly empower you to deliver your Archetypal Lineage as some kind of Trainer or facilitator of healing and transformation.)
HOLDING 'DOUBLE SPACE'
In daily life (which you may regularly navigate into Extraordinary or Archetypal Spaces) you need your Center, your Grounding Cord, and your Personal Bubble of Space. After jacking-in to them, your Bright Principles remain with you and are ongoingly available resources.
If you have a Client for a Healing or Initiatory Process, then you would use your Clicker to Split Your Attention to Hold an additional Energetic Work Space which contains you with your Bubble of Space, plus your Client with their Bubble of Space. Then you call your Bright Principles into your overall Workspace.
In a different circumstance, you might create a Training Space in which you and the Training Participants run more than one Healing or Initiatory Process simultaneously in parallel in the same Training Space. After training your Participants to become Centered, Grounded, and Bubbled, you also train them to Split Their Attention and Declare and Hold their own little Energetic Work Space for themselves and their Client within your overall Energetic Training Space.
This means you Hold your own Center, Grounding Cord, and Bubble of Personal Space within your own smaller Energetic Work Space while you coach the Coaches of the Possibilitators - who are in their own smaller Energetic Work Spaces with their Clients - then at the same time you Split Your Attention AGAIN to Declare, Hold, and Navigate the bigger overall Training Space with your Bright Principles flowing through. This means you are Holding your personal Work Space plus the overall Training Space at the same time, which we call 'Holding Double Space'.
At first this may seem like a lot, yet, with repeated practice, it becomes as natural as Splitting Your Attention six different ways while you, 1. Eat an apple, 2. Ride your bicycle, 3. Listen to your MP3 player, 4. Check out the guys on the street, 5. Remember your shopping list, and, 6. Do window shopping. Splitting your Attention six ways is no big deal. Learn to do it consciously.
ANSWERING QUESTIONS AT TALKS AND WORKSHOPS
The amazingly wonderful and empowering quality of having your Bright Principles as resources in any talk, workshop, or process space is that Bright Principles are archetypal resources. Because we are born in raised in modern culture's capitalist patriarchal empire, we are not trained in and have no role models showing us how to hold and navigate archetypally empowered spaces. As a human being you are designed to access and navigate archetypal spaces because you have an Archetypal Body!
This particular HINT is that you can learn to radically rely on your Bright Principles as resources.
You can radically rely on your Bright Principles to be the primary source every time you deliver a Worktalk, Workshop, or Process (or to write your Newsletter, write your Article, write the Script, or write the Book...). This is an absolutely astonishing and ongoingly ecstatic and transformational series of experiences.
You can also radically rely on your Bright Principles to be the primary source every time you interact with another person in any circumstance. This is when you discover that human beings are designed to fly.
What this means is that after you create the conditions of establishing yourself (your Box and your Being) in a Held and Navigated Space as the space through which your Bright Principles can do their work in the world, the results are not limited by your own human resources. You are not longer limited to what you know, what you have learned how to do, what you are certified in, what you think is possible for you, etc. You are jacked into unknown and nearly unlimited additional resources which you can radically rely on to deliver outcomes, even though you remain radically responsible for those outcomes.
Your Integrity is still possible even though you cannot predict in what ways the outcomes you create may exceed or be very different from expectations others might be holding. You can still have Integrity while being in the service of the great Mystery where although you are Radically Responsible, most things are out of your direct control.
Each person in your Worktalk, Workshop, or Process Space represents to some degree their own authentic necessity. You can Hold Space in such a way that their full necessity is allowed to be vulnerably present when you have the Clarity that your Box does not have to provide the answers or the possibilities that are needed because your Bright Principles can.
This is like going into battle with Achilles at your side, like having the complete Akashic Records plus Merlin, Mary Magdalene, Shiva and Ganesha... all the remarkable Beings present in your Space as allies serving your people. All you have to do is connect in with each person's authentic necessity, guard against Gremlins, and consciously use the 7 Kinds of Speaking as needed.
You can remain radically undefended and radically vulnerable while providing radically profound Service. Forces of nature such as Integrity, Clarity, Possibility, Love, Transformation, and High Level Fun deliver their goods through you while you attentively stay Centered, Grounded, Present and loose enough on your bearings to Navigate Nonlinear Spaces. These are the kinds of skills learned in the Possibility Management Trainer Path.
Experiments For Life-After-Jacking-In To Your Bright Principles
The Purpose of these Experiments is to free-up energy you currently use
for carrying excess 'baggage' in your 5 Bodies
so that you can use it for delivering your Destiny.
Read the website 'What Now?' and the articles mentioned in this website.
They are painful, yes. They are painful because they burn your naiveté, they burn your fantasy world about modern culture, about humanity, about humans.
The closer you are to reality, the better your Bright Principle can do their work where your clients are.
When you have finished reading the website and articles, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.01 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
You may have addictions to smoking tobacco, smoking pot, drinking alcohol, beer, wine. You may have addictions to sweets, Coca-Cola, coffee, chocolate. You may have addictions to TV Series, pornography, computer sex, Low Drama messaging battles.
You may have addictions to consuming things you don't need, building debt, shopping online.
Write down each of your addictions in your Beep! Book.
Then read SPARK-Experiment 17:
Addiction is not the problem. Addiction is the solution to the problem.
AND do ALL the steps of the experiment in SPARK 17 for EACH of your addictions.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.02 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point, and you can enter the code for the SPARK for each additional addiction you work with.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: List Your Habits and Try Being Habitless
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.03
On a fresh page in your Beep! Book, write a new heading: "My Habits," and start listing your
Habits of thinking.
Habits of perceiving.
Habits of (not) feeling.
Habits of Being.
Habits of relating.
Habits of (not) evolving.
For the three days, keep adding to this list as you notice habits you have.
Then, for one whole week, as best you can, do not act out from these habits. Try being Habitless.
When the week is over, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.03 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Heal Your Unconscious Anger
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.04
Every time you explode, get offended, are irritated, frustrated or resentful, 'feel' righteous, explain, justify, complain, gossip, compete, it is fuelled by Unconscious Anger.
Unconscious Anger is not only experienced and expressed at 80% intensity of anger. You can be 3% angry unconsciously and that prevents you from Being Present and the Space through which your Bright Principle can do their work in the world.
The experiment is: lower your numbness bar to become more sensitive to your lower intensity of unconscious anger. Notice when you feel emotional anger and write down in the back of your Beep! Book as Emotional Healing Processes. Go through the Emotional Healing Process with your Team.
When you have done five Emotional Healing Processes about your anger, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.04 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Heal Your Unconscious Fear
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.05
Your Unconscious Fear filters what you can perceive, listen to, hear, see and what you can express, take a stand for, create (something out of nothing), explore (new territories).
The source of a number of your unconscious fears lay in the fear that what happened to you in the past might happen again.
Therefore, you have unconsciously arranged your life so that the chances of this happening again are nonexistent. By doing so, you cut yourself off from many possibilities.
Heal your unconscious fears about being visible, attractive, radiant, powerful, and loveable for your 5 bodies to allow your Bright Principles to flow through you.
Join a Fear Club.
When you have completed a Fear Club (at least 4 weeks of 2 hour sessions), enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.05 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Also recommended: Do the Experiments on the Conscious Fear website with your Team. Each of these have their own Matrix Codes.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Heal Your Unconscious Sadness
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.06
Unconscious sadness reveals itself under the locked combination of emotional sadness and a story of victimhood. It might be the experience of hopelessness, despair, depression, loneliness, or abandon - all of which are mixed emotions that includes emotional sadness.
Every week, in your Team, for at least five weeks, reserve 15 to 20min to Complete Incomplete Emotions. Choose the ones that carry emotional sadness charge or mixed emotions.
Alternatively, arrange five sessions with a space-holder where you Complete Incomplete Emotions that carry emotional sadness for at least 15 minutes per session.
When you have done one of these, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.06 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Heal Your Unconscious Joy
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.07
Your unconscious joy lies in your childhood fantasy world. Fantasy worlds are not bad or wrong, they are simply not reality. The further you are from reality, the less your work will have impact on reality. You can change your fantasy world, and your life (and other people's lives) will be exactly the same.
What fantasy worlds do you live in that are fuelled by your unconscious joy? Do you think you are a good person? a good boy/man/father/son? a good girl/women/mother/daughter? Do you live in a world that you think is intrinsically good? Do you think that the Bright world will one day defeat the Shadow world? Do you think people are good people with bad childhoods, bad habits, and trauma?
It could also be that your joy is owned by your child ego state. You might have discovered when you were a child that if you were happy then the 'adults' would leave you alone or that then they would be happy too. You might have discovered that living in the bubble of unconscious emotional joy, you could more easily manipulate others to join you in that bubble and their problems would disappear for a while.
To heal your unconscious joy is to wake up from your fantasy world, to pop the bubble. Do whatever it takes to get out now.
For this experiment, ask help from your Team to design an experiment that lasts at least one month, and do the experiment your Team helps you design. One example would be to consciously not smile for one month.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.07 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
Your Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Let us know about the experiment you create and how it goes, so we can include it on the Conscious Joy website.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: End One Situation Where You Are Being Adaptive
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.08
Your mission if you choose to accept it is: Adapt to Nothing and Withhold Nothing.
Step One: Observe yourself for one week, noticing the ways in which you are adaptive.
Step Two: Identify the one situation that occurs most often.
Step Three: for one month, refuse to be adaptive in this way.
Step Four: enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.08 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Relocate Your Point of Origin Into Your Center
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.09
Your Point Of Origin is where your perceptions are defined and your expressions originate.
Without authentic adulthood initiatory processes you leave your Point Of Origin in its original, survival-oriented position. Each location, when unconsciously supported, is one of the 8 Prisons.
The 8 Prisons are:
While reading through this list of 8 Prisons you could feel which ones you were stuck in. You get out of these Prisons in the order they are shown. Start at the lowest number.
This Experiment is to go to the Point Of Origin website and have your Possibility Team or Possibility Coach take you through the process of Relocating Your Point Of Origin for the purpose of freeing up the energy you are using to lock-down your Point Of Origin in your old Prison.
Make a plan for what you want to do with the new energy you unleash.
When you have been through the process of Relocating Your Point of Origin, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.09 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Clarify a Significant Reactivity That You Have
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.10
Buttons
Hooks
Triggers
Traumas
Voices
Imbalances
Each of those 6 sources of reactivity is a gateway for a healing process. After the healing process, your Being can emerge into a new shape which leaves more space for your Bright Principles to flow through your gameworlds.
Your job is to distinguish, notice and heal them in yourself. Each source of reactivity has a different healing procedure.
The more you can notice them and heal them in yourself, the more you can distinguish them in other and bring their lives into a new level of clarity about their reactivity.
This experiment is to use the next Button, Hook, Trigger, Trauma, Voice or Imbalance that shows up as as a doorway for a healing process. When you notice it, reach out to ask for someone to hold space for you. Book a time, and do the process.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.10 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Distinguish Feelings From Emotions
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.11
This experiment begins with reading over both the Four Feelings and Four Emotions websites, and take notes while you do so, even if you have read the websites before, even if you have been doing Conscious Feelings work for some time.
Then, for the next week, when ever you feel something, ask yourself, "Is this a feeling or an emotion?"
Write down in your Beep! Book what you notice as you more clearly distinguish your feelings from your emotions.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.11 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.
This is such an important distinction that you will be doing a great service if you use your findings to write an article, or give a work talk or a work shop for your circle.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Change One Part of Yourself Into Conscious Theater
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.12
You have Parts: Gremlin parts, Box parts, 5 bodies, and more.
Mostly, you have learned to identify with your parts. When your Gremlin is active, it seems like your Gremlin is the real you. When your Child is active or when your physical body is in pain or your Box's buttons get pushed, same thing.
Identifying with your parts like this comes at a cost. The cost is your agency, your free space, your ability to choose regardless of what your parts are up to. When you are owned by your parts in this way, you make yourself unavailable to be moved by your Bright Principles.
Disidentifying from your parts is possible. One of the ways to practice disidentification is to begin inhabiting your parts as acts of Conscious Theater.
The experiment here is that for one week, you choose one of your parts and you practice making it a conscious character in your personality repertoire. If one of your parts is a complaining victim, this would mean that for one week, you no longer unconsciously complain into a space, but instead you consciously crank up your whining, increase your whimpering, and over-exaggerate your hardships.
That means that rather than casually telling your friend, "Gosh, my job is so difficult," you might instead start by letting out an enormous sigh, toss your hands over your head, and cry with exasperation, "God! Why do you punish me with this daily toil? What did I do to deserve this? Why is my life so hard?"
Practice this with one part for 7 days.
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This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Give Away Your Extra Possessions
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.13
Physical baggage is heavy. Every object that you own, owns you in return. Every physical object that you own, you need to take care of, fix, replace, find a place for, and think about what to do with them, etc... Every object that you possess takes a part of your energy, attention and time.
How much stuff do you need?
Clean your closets, your kitchen, your garden, your basement, your cellar.
Donate these things to charity, or put them out front with a sign that says, "FREE STUFF," sell them on e-Bay and use the money to go backpacking with your remaining possessions.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.13 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Create 3 Drama Free Zones In Your Life
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.14
If a zone, such as, for example, your relationship with your partner, is established as a Drama Free Zone, it becomes a space in which your Bright Principles have more room to work.
To start this experiment the practice is very clear: when you approach the Drama Free Zone, you check your Gremlin at the door. No words come out of your mouth until your Gremlin is sitting next to you and you have him on a short chain.
It is highly recommended that your relationship be a Drama Free Zone. You might also make your work space, your car, your grocery shopping trips Drama Free Zones.
Create three Drama Free Zones in your life. When you have honoured these for one month, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.14 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Identify One Place You Are Competing and Shift to Winning Happening
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.15
For this experiment, sit down with your Beep! Book, scan your life and write about the places in your life where you are competing.
Maybe it is with a sibling, or an old classmate from school. Maybe it is with whoever happens to be around when you are working on something. Identify one place.
Next, write for at least 20 minutes (use a timer) about possible ways you can shift to Winning Happening. For example, you could call your sibling and ask about what they are interested about lately and share what you are interested about. You could invite your old classmate to your Possibility Team. You could express genuine appreciation to the people around you when you are working.
You can also ask your Team to give you possibilities for creating Winning Happening in this one place.
For the next week, put these possibilities to work.
At the end of the week, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.15 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Drop Your Lone-Wolf Single Fighter and Create A 3Cell
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.16
Read the 3 Cell webiste. Write down a brief four or five sentence description of what a 3 Cell is and why it is magical.
Think of ten people you would like to create a 3 Cell with and call them one by one to invite them to create a 3 Cell with you that will last a minimum of three months, using your description.
When the first person says yes, figure out with them a day and time when you can do a weekly 90 minute call.
Then go back to your list and keep calling and asking the others on your list if they can join as the 3rd person until you have your third person.
Meet with your 3 Cell for 3 months, or maybe for the rest of your life. At any time you can create a second 3 Cell to complete the Infinity Gene.
After the first 3 months, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.16 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Dissect the Origins of One Story About Scarcity
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.17
The opposite of scarcity is not abundance.
The opposite of scarcity is creating.
For this experiment, begin by identifying the main scarcity story you want to dissect. Is it about money? Love? Fun? Success?
When you have identified the scarcity story you want to dissect, contact a Possibilitator and say, "I want to dissect my scarcity story around...".
Arrange a time and place, and show up ready to go into a Liquid State. Dissect the origins of this story. Do not leave until you have another experiment to do about creating what you have had a scarcity story about. Do the experiment.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.17 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Test One of Your Beliefs Against Reality
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.18
A "belief" is a mental construct that is not required to be connected to reality. The mind can believe anything about anything. (Where did you get your beliefs? Why do you have them?)
What if you are finished with your beliefs, in the same way that a butterfly is finished with its cocoon as it flies into the world as an adult?
For this experiment, in your Beep! Book, write down a list of beliefs you have that you suspect may not connect to reality.
Choose one of the beliefs you have.
Make a project out of testing it against reality that lasts at least 90 minutes.
For example, maybe you believe it's impossible to become a professional dancer when you are over 50.
Google 'she became a professional dancer at 50' and spend at least 90 minutes reading the articles and watching the videos that show up.
If you need possibilities for your test, ask your Possibility Team or someone from your 3-Cell.
When you have busted one belief, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.18 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Feel free to test more beliefs against reality.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Identify and Refuse to Continue Holding Onto an Assumption
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.19
Anyone can Assume anything about anything.
Do you get this?
Assumptions can be powerful ...or worthless.
Making an Assumption changes who you are by changing the shape of your Being. It's like adding a dungeon to your airplane.
The shape of your Being is visible to others.
After making an Assumption you are a Being that has locked part of itself into the Dungeon of Assumptions.
Making Assumptions is like gossiping to yourself and believing it.
'Assuming' is an action that you can make intentional.
For this experiment, make a new heading in your Beep! Book: My Assumptions.
For the next week, give your Gremlin the job of catching you making assumptions. When he or she does, add them to your list under the heading.
At the end of the week, sit down with your list and ask the following questions:
Where did this Assumption come from?
Is there another Assumption behind this Assumption? If so, is there another one behind that one?
What is the Purpose behind each of your Assumptions?
Do you want to continue carrying the burden of each of these Assumptions?
Why or why not? What is your Shadow World (Gremlin) benefit?
To ignore these simple yet profound questions is to disconnect yourself from the mechanics of Possibility.
When you have done this experiment, enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.19 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Withdraw an Expectation You Hold About Someone... Forever
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.20
By Assuming that your Assumption is true you change your Assumption into an Expectation.
Expectations are sleep-inducing fantasy Declarations made with the impossible intention of forcing the future to turn out as you predict.
Expectations are one of the Box’s most efficient tools for destroying the possibility of Intimacy and for creating Low Drama.
Expectations ruin relationships.
Expectations are similar to Beliefs in that both Expectations and Beliefs lack a basis in reality.
When your Expectation is not fulfilled, it changes into a Resentment.
One Resentment is all it takes to kill Intimacy.
For this experiment, choose one of your closest relationships. It can be with a partner, parent , child, friend. Scan your relationship with them for a Resentment.
Trace the Resentment back to the Expectation from which the Resentment grew, when the Expectation wasn't met. Notice how your Expectation was not based in reality.
Write this all down in your Beep! Book.
Arrange to meet with the person.
When you meet with them you can say something like:
"I have discovered that I have had an Expectation of you, and that when this Expectation is not met, I create Resentment. I want this to change. I hereby withdraw the Expectation that you will ....(name it)....FOREVER."
Then you can enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.20 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
You can do it however many times you want to.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Identify and Dissolve a Conclusion
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.21
A Conclusion is another kind of Declaration, made with Is-Glue, that is 'final'.
As with Beliefs, Assumptions and Expectations, a Conclusion may or may not be based in reality, even though most Conclusions are backed up by 'Evidence'.
For this experiment, first, make some time to hunt down some of your Conclusions and the Evidences you use to back them up. Write them down in your Beep! Book.
For example if your Conclusion is, "My daughter's father hates me," it might be backed up by the Evidences:
- he always used to forget my birthday when we were together
- he took up running as a way to spend less time with me even though he already had a busy work schedule
- when we divorced he told me he never wanted to pay me any child support
- he has never told me he forgives me for the things I have told him I am sorry about.
Next, identify the Beliefs, Assumptions and Expectations hidden in the Conclusion and Evidences.
For each Evidence and then for each Conclusion, write three different sentences that answer the question: "What else might be possible about this?"
Notice what happens to your Conclusion.
Enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.21 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Identify and Stop One Projection on Someone
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.22
A Projection is an extremely effective Box defense strategy.
The Box takes any part of itself that it does not like and transfers that quality to other people whom you can then outwardly ridicule.
Projection is an effective Gremlin Food from either the Child Ego State, the Parent Ego State, or the Gremlin Ego State. (Learn more about Ego States here.)
The problem is that the people you are projecting your Emotional reactions on are not the correct targets so nothing will ever be healed or resolved no matter how hard you Project onto them.
To resolve Emotional Projections, an Emotional Healing Process is necessary, such as those provided by Possibility Coaches, Feelings Practitioners, or Trainers at Possibility Labs.
Identify one Projection that you have been making onto another person. (Hint: it is probably someone your Gremlin wants to ridicule).
Reach out to a Possibility Coach, Feelings Practitioner, or Trainer, and use the Projection as a doorway for an Emotional Healing Process.
Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.22 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Ask for Feedback About a Prejudice You Hold and Heal It
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.23
A Prejudice is another form of Declaration.
For this experiment, talk to three people who know you well, and say something like, "I am doing research to help me see myself more clearly. Can you help me by telling me what prejudices you see that I hold?"
Then listen, and write down what each person says.
Compare the lists.
Begin with the Prejudice that was noticed most. Arrange to have a Possibility Coach or Feelings Practitioner hold space for you to heal this Prejudice.
Then you can enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.23 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Identify and Quit One of Your Self Judgments
If you are serious about becoming a space through which your Bright Principles can do their work in the world, self judgments, self criticism, and other forms of self flagellation are indulgences you can no longer afford.
This experiment begins when you decide to begin and then lasts for the rest of your life.
Step 1 is to choose one of your self judgments. It could be, "I'm lazy," "I am a slow learner," "I blew it during college," "I am such a selfish person," "I am bad at holding space," "I am stupid," etc.
Step 2 is that you decide to quit this judgment of yourself, now and forever. You become a "NO" for this judgment. Whenever it comes up, you refuse it. If part of the judgment contains a voice, you can even use your Voice Blaster to ruthlessly blow it to smithereens.
Eventually, any remnants of the judgment will disappear, and you will have more space inside yourself.
After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.24 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. (next paragraph)
This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Ask for Feedback and Get Off One Positionality
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.25
You can either be 'right' or be in relationship. This is up to you. Positionality comes from your Box and your Gremlin protects your position at any cost, including Love, Relationship, Collaboration, and Team.
This does not mean: lose your Clarity. Clarity and Positionality are two very distinct resources. Clarity uses distinctions, Positionality uses opinions.
Practice dying first. Drop your positionality. Practice navigating the relationship back to a transformational listening space. Taking apart your Positionality is an Inner Permaculture technology that creates magical results.
enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.00 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Use Phoenix Process to End One of Your Resentments
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.26
Review how the Phoenix Process goes.
Sense into your Resentment.
Go to the person you are Resenting.
Take your Resentment apart in front of them. Tell them your Assumptions, your Reasons, your Unfulfilled Expectations.
Feel and express your Emotions right there in front of them regardless of your embarrassment or shame. (It is far more embarrassing and shameful to HOLD ONTO a Resentment than it is to put your Poop On The Table for everyone to see and let it die there in public...)
Let that part of your Box die that was holding onto the Resentment, right there in front of the other person.
Ask for and deliver a Do-Over without any assumptions, expectations, or resentment involved.
After you have used the Phoenix Process to dismantle one Resentment with someone, please register Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.26 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Detect and Kill a Revenge that You are Plotting
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.27
Revenge is a Shadow Principle. You can waste lifetimes playing out bottomless revenge games.
Being done with revenge begins with detecting a revenge plot that is active in your life right now. Some examples of revenge plots in action include:
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: List Your Reasons and Try to Choose Without Your Reasons
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.28
Reasons make you reasonable. When you are a slave to reasonability you cannot take unreasonable action. Being unable to take unreasonable action turns out to be a severe handicap when it comes to following intuition, being moved by ECCO, being a space for your Bright Principles, and accessing all sorts of massive resources.
In this experiment, begin by turning to a blank page in your BEEP! Book and titling it, "My Reasons." Then, for 1 week, start to notice and record your reasons for doing what you do. Why do you why do you work at your job? Why do you not have a partner? Why do you watch The Witcher? Reasons might include things like:
When the two weeks are over, write a 3-page article documenting your discoveries. What did you get up to in your time off from reasons?
Free Up Energy and Attention for Your Bright Principles: Stand at the Side of Your Survival Strategy and Let It Freak Out While You Stay Present
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.29
Survival is an orientation to life where your entire purpose and focus is to simply get by, to make it through. Surviving takes everything you have to maintain your status quo. It is designed that way so you have no surplus Presence, no abundance of Being or Being With.
What happens when you stop playing the survival game? This is your experiment.
For one day (from sunrise to sunset) select some major facet of your survival strategy and choose to stand at the side of it, being present, and watching it freak out. This could mean your perfectionism, your confusion, your need to know, your need to hide, your pleasantness, your politeness, your apologeticness.
As your survival strategy freaks out, write down some the things you notice in your BEEP! Book. Are there thoughts? Feelings? Emotions? Just observe and make note, but don't do anything to rescue your survival strategy from its freakout.
Find and Transend One of Your Boundaries That Blocks the Flow of Your Bright Principles
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.30
The following text is a story with hints from the 3 Phase Healer: Jen Ward:
Experiment: Recognize when boundaries are NOT good.
My friend loves her yard. She gushes over her trees, feeds the wildlife and lets each plant she puts in the ground, tell her where it wants to be. Her home has been a paradise for her and the lucky inhabitants.
I was driving down her road to visit her and I noticed a huge balsam tree across the street in her neighbors yard. It was very sad and sickly. Immediately it conveyed what was wrong with it. There was so much love and appreciation for the other trees; but it got none. Trees and nature do not understand property lines. Why should they?
Humans are so able to cut off the love mid stream between property lines, families, ethic lines, demographics, religious beliefs etc.. What if we stopped doing that, maybe the world will be different. What if we poured our love over to whom and whatever crossed our attention. What if we loved everyone's children as our own? What if we mourned every loss.
There is a strange disconnect that happens to me now when I see the family of victims crying on the news. I am not proud of it but I have to admit that I get angry. Why does this person get to display their loss and grief when there are so many others dying and suffering in the world. We are killing species and ecosystems right in our own neighborhood and it is acceptable. Why is this person's house sliding off a cliff any more tragic than all the homes that are destroyed when we 'randomly' claim a patch of wildlife as prime real estate.
It isn't that I put less value on human life, it is that I put a higher value on ALL of life. The arrogance of people thinking that they are the only species that matters, that they are the only life form to take into consideration, that they are the only one's that love diminishes their value a little bit, actually.
I told my friend about what the tree told me. Immediately my friend sensed the truth of her overly-rigid boundary concept which was unnecessarily blocked her love from flowing further. She put on her slippers and in a misty rain went and hugged the tree that was sad. The two trees in the next yard wanted the same. She felt self conscious and embarrassed going into the neighbor's yard to do this. Yet she did because it was breaking down her own resistance to love. We don't have to go in the neighbors yard but we can be 'in love' with any one we put our attention on.
I hold the quiet intention that everyone in the world can be 'in Love' with each other.
This Experiment is to find out where your boundary concepts block you from flowing the Love, Clarity and Possibility of your Bright Principles. Design and do one experiment to check and transcend your own boundaries when needed. Then show others how to to this.
enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.00 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.
Try Living for a Week as if The Only Thing You Really Need in Life is Your Bright Principles
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.31
What if it's true? What if it works?
PART 1 of this Experiment is to meet yourself where you are.
What is meant by the term 'yourself'? Good question.
Here the idea of 'yourself' means 'the space through which your Bright Principles do their work in the world'.
Meet that space where it is. Be there with it. Relate to yourself as being that Space.
Don't try to tell yourself what to think, or buy, or do.
No change is too small — in fact, those tiny choices you make every day, by rote or by habit (paper or plastic? take or toss? borrow or buy?) are exactly where change is most possible and powerful.
What is your “why”?
Why are you drawn to the ideas of simplicity and intentionality?
“People are more important than things” and “Debt is not a tool.”
PART 2 of this Experiment is to be there at the least adorned, least encumbered, least explained, essential self. Stay there for 3 hours. Breathe. Interact as needed. Take care of yourself. Let the forces of Bright Principles and E.C.C.O. and Archetypal Lineage handle the big stuff while you handle the little stuff so that the big stuff can happen. After the 3 hours, write a free-verse poem about your journey in your Beep! Book. Then enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.00 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.
Live for One Week Radically Relying on Your Bright Principles Doing The Work, Not You
Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.32
The experiment is to open your mouth and to let your Bright Principles speak through you.
When you try this experiment, if you experience that you freeze and go blank, you are Stage Fright. This means you are putting your center in front of you in the future (around 80cm) and then from the future you look at yourself telling yourself that you should 'perform' or 'say this' or 'say that'. Your center is not with you anymore and you stop being the space through which your Bright Principles can speak.
Remember that you are not one speak, they are, they have a lot to say even if you don't. Keep opening your mouth, the words will come out.
enter Matrix Code BRIGHTPR.00 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.
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